Understand that not all people would love you or like you. We all have different things and we see different things and stuff. Free will made us like this. I could see the importance of whatever thing I'm doing but the others might not. What I'm saying is, like music, we have different preferences and genres.
The same goes with life, we can never force someone to like us. Instead we should let them see the beauty of what we are. But still, no matter how pretty, how attractive or how interesting you are only a percentage of the people around you would really like you. "They always have negative things to say." Some even try hard to find your negatives. I read once in the net that it's around 20% of all the people surrounding you would, most likely, not be interested with you.
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